He's a Gift from God

He is a gift from God to us. Back in 2009, it was the period of time when I actually really get to know him. He is my cell leader, a leader who is very very responsible and reliable. He is a very shy and introvert person but due to our talkativeness, he started to talk and joke with us in the car whenever we went out for dinner after cell. Connie and Chin Eng always gave him some lame jokes and he picked up from there.. starting to be super "fei" too. It was indeed a joyful period of time until Connie's accident happened.

Her accident brought our relationship closer like a family. Whenever we have difficulties, he is the first person to help and always say yes to our request. Although he's young but being the eldest son in his family, it created his good and reliable characteristics which earned him a lot of admiration and respects. He was the one and only person who directly offered me help during that incident. Coming all the way from Puchong to Tmn Melati in the middle of the night to fetch me to the hospital. Staying overnight with me in the hospital underground level, waiting for the completion of operation, accompanying us to wait for the reports..slept for 1 hour only for that 2 days.. proved that he is a Good Man.

He is very talented in directing skills. He once told me that he is interested in pursuing Cinematography. He directed a lot of dramas in our church. The biggest and latest production was 4320. We're proud of him and the CPM team. He was restless and stressed but he neither complaint nor scold his team for being late sometimes. He was sick at that period of time but he did not take off day from his work. He is definitely not a workaholic but due to his working environment, he was forced to even work on public holiday.

When I was sad and stress over my house issues, exams, ministry, he is the one who cheered me up and gave me advice. I wanted to do the same for him now. I knew he is feeling down when I talked to him. He sound low in spirit.

He was recently diagnosed with Familial Colon Cancer and recent report stated that it is in stage IV and had metastasized to liver. I've seek advice from Dr. Lim a special researcher in cancer field. When she heard about his condition, all I heard was gasping. I knew it in my mind that it has gone to a serious stage. Dr. Lim adviced to get treatments asap and to cut out the colon. If he really wanted to opt for cyberknife, seek advice from the specialist asap and weight the benefits of both treatments (colectomy and cyberknife). Doctors will normally give the solutions where they are more specialised in and have more confident (cos of higher success rate he had done in prev patient).

Oh God, he is a humble man of yours and he is still very young. He directed dramas, the calling that you've planted in his life. Let him continue to testify you, Lord, in both ways.. in health and in drama production. I believe in You! You are the Way, the Truth and the Light. In You, we found the path to salvation.. In you, we found miracles.. In You, we believe all extraordinary things will happen. He is a GIFT from you to us. A friend who cherish us, a friend who makes our lives different, a brother whom we love so much. Heal him, O Lord. You are Jehovah Rapha, God who heal.. We want miracles to happen. We pray to you, O Lord, hear our prayers and our sincerity. We believe all the treatments are beneficial in prolonging his life and you will use him to testify your name and power to the whole world until the day you come again to save us. O Lord, answer our prayers, answer my prayer.

If you wish to help him or buy him some foods like I do, buy the list of food or nutrients listed below (this is the food that help inhibits/prevents cancer cell):

• Colourful fruits and vegetables - especially red grapes with seeds.
• Whole grains - pasta/bread/rice.
• Calcium - supplements or dairy foods (cheese/yoghurt) -->Less
• Green tea (not fermented type)
• Vitamins and minerals (such as folate, Vit D or E, selenium).
• Celery (got selenium).
• Garlic
• Nuts.
• Raw honey.
• Less protein.

List of No-no food:

• Milk.
• Meat
• Fish
• Egg (especially egg yolk)
• Proteins (black beans, tofu, peanut butter)
• Gingko biloba (Bai guo)
• Mushroom.
• Foods/drinks that increase blood circulation or help build cell/tissue.